Demonstrate / articulate: To the degree that something is truly new, really communicating what it means requires iterative demonstration and articulation. Mute doing and empty saying spiral in toward articulate action and substantiated message.
Authenticity / tact: Being yourself does not mean behaving the same way no matter who is present, and being responsive to others does not mean suppressing yourself. When either self or the other is suppressed the relationship is missing one of its essential terms. One must speak authentically as one’s self, but address the other specifically — that is, say it in such a way that it will be heard by this other person. This does not mean one seeks to please the other, only that one takes the other seriously as one who is there and is hearing in that person’s own way. Tact, as I am defining it here (admittedly oddly), might manifest as intentionally disturbing or angering the other.
Actual / potential / metaphysical: Articulate every reality that can be articulated, but never reduce reality to what can be articulated. Perhaps the most important thing to be articulated is the relationship between word and the vastness of inarticulate reality. Words are entirely real, but they are not the entirety of reality. (They’re not even the entirety of our own reality (much less what is potentially our reality (much less what is real but will never be ours))). [It’s so liberating to use nested parentheses!]
Objective / participatory: We want to pull up and out of what we know — maintain objective distance — when in fact we are involved with what we know and participatorily immersed in our knowing and our knowledge.